The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People By Stephen Covey will answer the questions you have in regards to success, becoming successful and leaving the life of your dreams. Isn’t that what you want? Well its one thing to want it it is another thing to do something about it. You can’t beg and you can’t cry. Doing so won’t give you the life you want. Instead you need to build on what you got even if it isn’t much and work towards it every single day.
Following the 7 Habits of Highly Effective people by Stephen Covey is your best bet. For those that have no time for this one book.. there is no hope for you.