5 Steps To Boost Your Confidence And Radically Transform Your Life

So what does it actually take to build a business that you love?

What does it take to travel around the world and to have the most amazing relationships that you’ve ever wanted out of life?

It takes none other than RADICAL confidence!

In today’s video, we’re gonna talk about the five steps to developing and crafting radical confidence. 

Not only can you go out there and crush life, but you can create the life, freedom, and the lifestyle that you want! 

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So the other day, I was confronted with an interesting proposition.

I didn’t even really expect this at the time, because sometimes, even though you’re not where you want to be, you’re not where you used to be!

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I failed to realize just how far it actually took me to develop the confidence that I had.

So there I was, hanging out with a bunch of friends when one of them came up to me and asked how was I able to develop such radical confidence 

He went on and asked, ‘Mike, how did you actually develop your radical confidence and where did this come from?’

It felt weird, because I actually didn’t see myself as radically confident.

But not until my surroundings and the people around me started saying and noticing it.

So I started learning how this came to be. .

When I was a kid, I was shy and scared at the world.

I was socially intimidated and I had no idea how to fit in. 

When I started to contemplate about it, what I found is it stems to THE FIVE LITTLE SHIFTS  that I did in my life.

I don’t mind where you are in your life..

If you want to start a business, if you want to start a relationship, or to have more love and more meaningful relationships in your life, YOU NEED RADICAL CONFIDENCE!

If you implement these five simple shifts, you will be able to not only get the life you want but have the confidence to take any goal in your mind and turn it into reality!

Shift #1 GO ALL OUT

Have massive action to getting as much reference experiences as possible.

Are you afraid to start the business? Go ahead and fail the business!

Afraid to talk to that girl and get rejected? Go ahead and talk to that girl!

The problem with most people is, in order to be confident, you have to be able and willing to go through a lot of crap in your life.

Because the reason why people are confident is when they see a situation, they know how to handle it. 

Well, how do they know how to handle a situation? It’s because they already dealt with it in the past! 

Now how did they dealt with it in the past? It’s because they have done it before they were actually comfortable in doing it.

It’s how you get good at anything..

When you get started at anything, you’re gonna suck.. Because you suck! 

But the more you keep on doing it, you’re gonna start sucking less.

When you keep on doing it more, you’ll suck so little until the day comes that you’ll finally get good at it. 

That’s the exact same thing with confidence! 


Like for me, instead of me getting confided by the constraints of society, by my parents, and by my friends..

I ended up leaving America at around the age of 21 to really pursue my dream of just traveling around the world, develop my skill set, and to develop my personality.

Another thing that I did to really work on getting more reference experience is I took a 30-day dating bootcamp in Vegas.

It’s where I literally learned how to be sober outside and get into as many different social interactions and learn my personality.

So if you wanna get a bunch of reference experiences, try going out sober.

If you need reference experience in business, try failing.

If you ask how I got reference experiences in business, some of you know this. I’ve been in business since I was 18 years old and I’ve failed more so than anybody else. 

The only reason why I was able to get reference experiences is because I failed over and over and over again 

Understand that the only way to get reference experiences is by putting yourself in situations that you are very uncomfortable in.

Kind of like Wim Hof where you get in the cold water.

When you get into the cold water, you realize that you’re alive. You’ll realize that, ‘hey! Ice baths and cold showers aren’t really that bad!’


Start to have standards for what you are willing to put up with and what you are not willing to put up with.

For me, I treat all people in the same way that I want to be treated.

I do not tolerate disrespect.

And I’m willing and able to leave any business deal or relationship if I’m not being treated right.

The thing, people will begin to walk all over you. 

For you to have such radical confidence, you need to be able at any given situation to know when you need to walk away from somebody or someone that isn’t treating you the way you were meant to be treated.

That’s exactly what I did.

A lot of my old friends aren’t actually treating me right, so I had to say goodbye to them.

It was scary because I’ve never felt more alone in my life especially around when I was 18 years old, when I was still trying to figure out who I was.

But understand this..

Having standards in place will allow you to show the world how exactly you want to be treated.


You need to be able to embrace the hate.

As I was travelling, I started going to places where I would go out sober.

So I went to Vegas for 30 days.

Now, here’s the thing about hate.

When you put yourself out there and you’re doing things that not a lot of people do, expect that you’re gonna get ridiculed.

Because most people are just projecting their own insecurities onto you.

So instead of them thinking about getting better, they would rather push you down.

Like, for me while  I was in Asia, I used to take my shirt off when I’m making videos. And I don’t really care whatever people may say about me. I’m embracing the hate.

Understand that as you journey through radical confidence, it doesn’t come easy.

It’s gonna come hard! 

It’s gonna come with some pain like a muscle when you build it, you’re gonna have to get torn down. 

But when you embrace the hate and you get Rhino-thick skinned, even if you lose money..

Even if you get rejected in business or by the love of your life, embrace it!

Embrace the rejection.

Understand that hate is normal and that for you to actually get the life that you want, you have to be okay with getting some hate.

There was a great marketer who once said, “If you don’t get any hate, you’re not marketing loud enough.” 

If you don’t get any hate, then you’re not actually living life to the fullest.

So if you want to live a very safe life, be nobody, do nothing and tiptoe your way to your graveyard.

If you want that way then of course, don’t get any hate but for most people, hate is normal when it comes to anything that was amazing!


That’s why travelling is so good for people because when you travel and when you’re by yourself, that’s the best time to practice it.

Sometimes when that happens to me, I used to ask myself how can I be happy or how can I laugh when I’m just by myself..

Then you shall realize how you actually don’t need other people to make yourself happy.

Live like you don’t need permission from other people to be happy.

So now let me ask you this question..

How you are when you when no one else is around you?

What is your default state? 

How much of those emotions do you actually embody when you’re by yourself and when no one else is around?

They say success isn’t what you do when people are looking, it’s what you do when no one’s looking. 

It’s exactly the same with having radical confidence.

It stems from how you actually treat yourself when no one else is around.

The moment you realize that you don’t need anything or anyone in any situation to feel the confidence, that’s when you start crafting radical countenance for yourself.

Remember this,

You feel the confidence first and then you will attract life second. 

Emotions first, results second!

It’s never the other way around.

Because that’s what most people think. .

They think that if they have the money, then they’ll be confident or when one has the best girlfriend, he’ll be confident.


Craft and discover your God-given purpose, something that you are willing to die for!

Try embracing the resistance.

It goes like this.. 

Everyone’s hating you and you’re going through failures which usually happens when you’re starting a business and you’re losing money.

You get clients and prospects but they’re rejecting your proposals and always saying NO to you.

You spend an hour on the phone call and you’re so close to closing a deal with a high-level client, yet they just say NO.

Probably your soul is destroyed and you have no idea how to scale your business..

You almost feel like giving up and you have no idea how to actually get to the next level in business or in your relationship.

Guys, understand and remember this..

Having a godly purpose makes the failure worth it!

That makes the ridicule, the depression, and the sadness worth it. 

This is what will create the ultimate confidence because you know that no matter how many negative things are going your way, it’s all worth it when you have an ultimate vision of where you want to be five to ten years down the road.

That includes the person you want to become, the life that you want to live, the contribution that you want to give, and the people that you’re surrounding yourself with. 

Because you chose to live a life that is radically honest with yourself, filled with radical confidence, and giving yourself emotions that you don’t need anybody else to get permission from.

So these are the 5 things that I’m talking about.

If you master this, you will be able to develop the radical confidence that will not only transcend you to another level, but to allow you to live the life that you want and ultimately live your ultimate best life now instead of later! 

If you need help with that, you can download the free 7-Figure Sales Funnels in the description of my YouTube video. 

I’ll see you guys on my next blog!

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Mike Vestil

Mike Vestil is an author, investor, and speaker known for building a business from zero to $1.5 million in 12 months while traveling the world.

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